Codependency is when you did not feel validated, heard or your needs were not met as a child so the way you learned to cope with that was by helping, fixing, people-pleasing, and taking care of others to feel the […]
Codependency is when you did not feel validated, heard or your needs were not met as a child so the way you learned to cope with that was by helping, fixing, people-pleasing, and taking care of others to feel the […]
It’s 10 pm, the night before a big project is due and the good old procrastination has gotten the best of you again. You tell yourself you are lazy and you have messed up once again. But if you understand […]
Do you ever get a gut feeling but you ignore it because you are not sure if you can trust it? Or do you ever trust that gut feeling and then come to the wrong conclusion or decision? We always […]
Gaslighting is something that has been coming up a lot lately. And it is great that more information on it has been coming to light. But it seems like some people say someone is gaslighting when the other person doesn’t […]
Learned Helplessness is when you face a situation and you don’t try to change your circumstances even though you have the ability to do so. It comes from a lack of confidence and a lack of belief in yourself. Learned […]
Anxiety is very future based. We don’t have worries about our past, we worry based on our past for the future. You have fears of what is to come, the unknown, uncertainty. Uncertainty is the biggest trigger for anxiety. Or […]
After you leave a narcissist you may notice you will have feelings of missing them. And when these feelings come up some thoughts that may arise are, ” Am I crazy?” “Is there something wrong with me?” Or ” Was […]
Emotional unavailability is when someone is not open to discussing their feelings or go deeper in some sort of way. They have a hard time emotionally connecting and they try to run from it. The reason why people become emotionally […]
Caring for what other people think comes from early childhood. From the time we are young, we are programmed to care and think of other’s opinions. This is because we constantly are needing to ask other people’s permission and their […]
Have you ever been driving and had a random thought like “what if I went into ongoing traffic right now”? Or you were cutting something and you thought ” I can just cut my finger off right now.” Don’t worry […]
